Dirty South

I have to admit, it's strange being from the West Coast and living in the South, really. We hold such stereotypes about the South and Southerners right? Being Black in the South makes me especially sensitive about the cultural dynamic here. I try to maintain a curious and opened mind even when others 'respectfully' don't. I've been called 'girl', I've been totally ignored by white woman, I've experienced the aggresive white male/black female entitlement flirting, and I've met some quintessential 'southern gentlemen' whom I respect to the fullest, but have to let down in the end. bummer.

One of the best things about being here is being among Black people who are comfortable with and proud of their identity--who understand and embrace their identity. For this reason alone, I love it here. New Orleans is simply an extension of the Caribbean Islands and West Africa. It is evident in the food, music, people's style, creole accents etc. My landlord told me one day that New Orleanians are "Island People." They stay close to home, cook amazing food, and love their families and extended family gatherings. I've witnessed this with the extravagant baby showers and birthday parties of my co-workers. For New Orleanians there is no occasion to small to party. Celebrate life always!